I met Sergei through a wonderful couple, mutual friends. He was singing and playing guitar in his apartment, and you know what an impression that could make. I found ways to return there, to ask him about his eclectic library, or Russian history, something about Kiev, literature or poetry, a political point, or a picture on his wall, which led to more questions, and memories, sometimes entire genres, and reasons to return. He had questions too eventually, pages marked off in a book, a problematic translation, a curious metaphor, the story of an Italian journey, or a joke. Darjeeling tea would be made (perfectly), or a Turkish coffee put on the stove, and invariably other delicacies served in a Japanese bowls. The sun poured in the apartment in the afternoon - the whole afternoon through sunset was his hour, hummingbirds came and went on the balcony - and it was another world up there, an older world, that he would show and open to his friends, slowly and with reserve, but in fact extremely generously, so that conversation became a kind of creative unfolding and projects arose and could move forward even across long silences and time zones. The count on Le Conte, I called him in my mind, and directly eventually, at which he laughed. I moved away from California and didn’t speak with him in his last months, out of my own shameful cowardice. He had so much courage to face all this. Did he know how beautiful he was? Was all that beauty some comfort? I’m so grateful to all of you who have been by his side.