Birth date: Feb 14, 1947 Death date: May 28, 2013
Ellen Louise Beckby a resident of Livermore, California passed away May 28, 2013. Ellen’s life will be celebrated by family and friends and her memory will live on always. Read Obituary
Dont you think I have a right to know why and how my mother died? especially since she died so young and I inherited all her health problems? you stole my childhood and most of my adulthood…it is the LEAST you could do. What is this crap no picture or proper obituary? after she was willing to give up her own child for you, do you not even have the love or respect enough to give her a proper obituary?
*within yourself, NOT with yourself
I did love you mom…I hope you finally found peace with yourself.
48 hrs Bob, that is all you have to save your ass from. public humiliation and financial ruin. I have nothing to lose now, nothing! child grown and father dead…and I have been dead since you touched me as a child. I want all pictures letters everything! including the carved jewelry box from thailand my father gave me but she kept. its worth nothing to. anyone but me…….
I loved you mom… even if you chose your child molesting husband over me… even though you forbid me to see the brother I adored… even though you denied my very existence… there was not a day that went by that I didnt cry and pray you would finally call me up and tell me you would stand by me, that you saw the error of your ways, and that you loved me and would protect me from that point on. I loved you, and I am glad you have finally found peace. Bob, I HIGHLY SUGGEST you contact me immediately. since my father died only 11 months prior to my mother, and my kids are grown, I no longer have anything left to lose, I want Anything and Everything my mother had of me, my childhood, and my father. including but not limited to any correspondance you hid from her! Are you understanding me this time? you must have grown balls of steel after what you did to me to not even notify me of my mother's death. Well, trust in the fact that I too have grown a set, and I will not let this go… I have noone left to protect.
Ellen, wife to Bob, Mother to Chris, Mother-in-law to Dawn was loved and will be missed by everyone she touched.
